when u become a tranny but you realise 99% of the real world is populated by normal people that think you are a freak so you can never get a job or fit in and are doomed to be a neet forever

I see it over and over again in fandoms someone saying they're 100% a lesbian but they just keep crushing on fictional men.

Do gay men fall in love and lust with fictional women? Wtf.

What does "Q+" mean in the LGBTQ+?

/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics. All wlw welcome to participate in lesbian discussion.

Discussion of trans men (FtM), dysphoria, repression, and chasing of “femreppers” (“dysphoric females/AFABs” aka repressing trans men) is considered off-topic and should be redirected to their respective generals.

QOTT
>Know how to shoot? Are you armed?

>What is a lesbian?
Lesbians are homosexual women, meaning they are women exclusively attracted to women (the same sex, female). This includes both cis women and transsexual MtF women.
>Can trans women be lesbians? How about trans men?
Yes, trans women (MtF) who are only attracted to women are lesbians. Some may use the term transbian to refer to themselves.
Some trans/FtM men used to be involved in the lesbian community as they often identified as lesbians before transitioning. However, they are not wlw and thus this general is not the place for trans men to post, especially since they have their own active community here and irl.
>Can I post here if I am a bisexual woman?
Yes, all wlw are welcome to participate as long as you keep discussion relevant to lesbian topics.
>Are genital preferences valid?
Sexual orientation is innate and we can’t choose what sex characteristics we’re attracted to. However, discussing how much you dislike a certain set of genitals can be rude and disrespectful. In the same vein, shaming others for their attraction or lack thereof is also disrespectful. Bee kind.

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Blue sky Edition
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Just this once, I would like to omit the Goal of the Thread.
Rest up, everyone. And once you have rested enough, speak your mind and share your feelings.
Thank you all for having been so patient. I will reply to everyone from the last thread, in time.

Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!

>What is this thread for?
Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.
Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.
>Why is this thread /lgbt/?
Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.
>Notes to consider:
Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:
WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION
>Note on advice
Generic advice won't necessarily help you in particular, but for those it does it is an essential foundation to build future progress on, not a miracle cure. Do not underestimate the effects subtle changes to your lifestyle can have. Try first, keep us posted on your progress, build from there.

We are *always* short on self help resources, so if anything was useful to you, let us know!
Since the OP is getting too long I moved all resources into their own post, see below!

## RESOURCE LINKS:

Resource link paste: https://sntry.cc/sig-resources-2024-04
General advice from Anons: https://sntry.cc/sig-tips-2024-04
Posts from other sites (markdown format): https://sntry.cc/sig-posts-2024-04

starting hrt at 18: youngshit, midshit, or lateshit?

chasers wyd if your trans gf flashes this at you?

what if there is a boymoder who waits forever for her dowload to finish?

what did you discover your real name to be? I found out mine is Celestia last week!!

Go to vocaroo and read the following ***two parts*** there, first this in an angry male voice:

That's so gay! Homo! Faggot! So you're a queer aren't you? Fag! Queer! Faggot!
What are you, a fag?

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Next part you read in a very sad, tragic female voice:

The next time you use words like these, think about what they really mean. There may not be a next time.

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Then at the end sob mercilessly for 10 seconds straight.