So I'm an MtF in a relationship with a pre-T FtM.

My partner is bisexual, but does not respond the same way to me sexually since after I started HRT, because I no longer have boysmell. They do not initiate sex nearly as often with me and don't get turned on from being around me - we have to do foreplay to get warmed up (including for me, now). He says that he is still attracted to me and happy to be with me.

I wish I didn't feel so guilty about this. I feel like I am taking sexual gratification away from my partner. I just want to meet all his needs, but I'm afraid what he actually wants is a guy, and his current attraction to me doesn't feel as good to him as before I started hrt. If my partner weren't in the picture I wouldn't have a second thought about getting SRS or continuing HRT, but I just want to please him and sometimes I feel that non-medical transition is the best way to do that. :(

And maybe once he starts T this will change, but I don't know. Are there any others who have navigated this stage of a st4t relationship? We still do PiV but I am lucky that he is happy to fuck me with a strap-on so I get my own needs met.

previously: >>35455470

quarter century edition!!!

thread for cis women dating trans women & trans women dating cis women

QOTT: It's lesbian visibility weak! Regardless of your letter, when have you been most ~visible~ recently?

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>first kiss at 6
>first time living alone at 10
>start smoking at 11
>bully broke my nose with a brick at 13
>first time at 14
>first time drunk at 14
>first fight at 15
>first time I smoke weed at 15
>first second time at 16
>finish high school at 17
>first job at 18
>almost died at 18
>start hrt at 19
and 6 years later I still don't pass and I don't have the enough money to pay for ffs, it's like when you think your life will be special but it ends up being shit because of your environment, I have a house, a car, and I study college online, my parents are paying my expenses, but paying a ffs would cost the same as a third of the value of my house, the university I'm going to is shit and I'm not learning anything, and I hate this in general, any ideas on how to improve my situation?

what antiandrogen is gonna completely kill my penis

Post people who still don't pass after FFS, I want to what I can expect from my own face

Why do so many of you guys have these?

post fits and inspo

Who is the most delusional passoid tripfag on this board these days? Who is the most annoying? I want to read up on their lore and need to know who to start with.

if you could just bring a picture to your FFS surgeon, say "I want this" and get it exactly, what would you bring?