>>33062946So, I got removed/blocked again by that person using your discord account.
I'm sorry to keep putting anything personal to you here, but I assume what they're going to try to do is say that I removed you, that I no longer wanted to talk to you, and delete any evidence that they said something.
I've attached a pic, you can see they made a voice message which was basically "she doesn't want to talk to you, don't contact us"
And listen, if that's true, you don't ever have to add me back, I won't try to chase you down if you actually want to be left alone of your own volition. But if that is not the case and I don't believe it is, that person is abusing you so fucking much and you HAVE to get away from them.
I would never, ever remove you without saying anything about it. I also would never force you to stop talking to a friend, I even relented a bit on calling them out on their shit earlier to not stress you so much because I don't want to force you to lose them. But they want to force you to lose me and anyone else that could ever get close to you or show you what is going on. You are in a dangerous situation. More than anything I hope you can get out from their control and find a better life for yourself. This is not one worth living.
Someone here mentioned going to a women's shelter. I didn't want to suggest that, but I want you to realize that if you stick with this person because they've rooted yourself so deeply in your life that it's unthinkable to resort to anything else because of the control they have over you, the "safety" they provide you (which isn't safety at all), etc., then you will probably be forced into the worst life you could possibly have because it will always be controlled by them. If you realize that they are an abuser that is isolating you from help, you can choose to make some uncomfortable decisions that will give you a better life as soon as you're away from them.
Sorry.