/lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender

holy shit this is so cringe, dont overthink this too much just say hi and talk about your interests, if the guy doesnt mine dating trans girls and likes how you look everything will go smoothly
stop asking this incel ass questions

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:45:36 No.35452266 Report

Quoted By: >>35452276 >>35452300

getting replies like this is why you dont make questions like this >>35452255
>>35452256
did you even read the OP, also you must be ugly if you never had a pretty girl approach you, nothing wrong with girls making the first move sometimes

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:48:34 No.35452276 Report

Quoted By: >>35452288

>>35452266
'Matching' doesn't force you to wait to be approached.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:50:56 No.35452288 Report

Quoted By: >>35452291 >>35452300

>>35452276
nyagger, youre so retarded, if you matched with a girl means you already swiped right on her meaning you like how she looks or you liked what she typed on her bio, either of you will have to say hi eventually, whoever is free first should do it, one will have to say hi eventually
stop posting, youre dumb

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:52:31 No.35452291 Report

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>>35452288
im repeating words, im gonna go to sleep instead, fuck OP for making this retard questions and fuck the other two guys who replied to the thread

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:53:02 No.35452294 Report

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>>35452255
no
>>35452256
Well I am using bumble so I have to do that
>>35452259
Well I am just looking for conversation starters, because a lot of men have kind of empty profiles / no interests other than soccer or something in their bios

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:54:29 No.35452300 Report

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>>35452259
>>35452266
>>35452288
You're an angry elf aren't you

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 08:55:39 No.35452306 Report

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>>35452232
take estrogen

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:12:53 No.35452386 Report

Quoted By: >>35452403

>>35452232
>How do you like to be approached
That's a loaded question

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:17:01 No.35452403 Report

Quoted By: >>35452409 >>35452472 >>35452520

>>35452386
What conversation starters do you like?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:18:07 No.35452409 Report

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>>35452232
>>35452403
"where would you like to fuck me?"

that's a good starter

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:20:07 No.35452414 Report

Quoted By: >>35452421

>>35452232
don't overthink it, just start with whatever you feel like at the moment, trying to start with some "optimal" opening phrase will just make you sound fake

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:21:27 No.35452421 Report

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>>35452414
I just asked a bunch of them what their interests are because their profiles didn’t specify

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:34:13 No.35452472 Report

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>>35452403
Idk I'm autistic. I hate it when normies and reddit retards tell you to just "ask them about their heckin' hobbies" the problem is not that I ask them questions it's the rate and frequency with which I do so and my inability to stop when the context becomes inappropriate. I don't want to turn casual conversation into an interrogation which is what I always do and people don't like that. It comes across like I'm some kind of fucking sticky beak or I'm being nosy when in reality I'm just a sperg who doesn't understand social cues

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:41:04 No.35452509 Report

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>>35452232
I am afraid of women so you would need to catch me will a large net

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 09:43:44 No.35452520 Report

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>>35452403
'i like rape'

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:04:36 No.35452610 Report

Quoted By: >>35452752

This thread is convincing me that chasers don’t deserve a chance

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:15:03 No.35452652 Report

Quoted By: >>35452675

>>35452232
have a regular conversation, make sure to both answer and ask questions, don't let the texting drag on for too long. if he doesn't make a move but you still want to see him just ask him out, some girls insist that "guys like being the ones that take initiative" but that's just an excuse to never have to risk rejection; no guy has ever felt bad about being asked out by a girl he likes.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:20:13 No.35452675 Report

Quoted By: >>35452719 >>35453496

>>35452652
Of course guys also like to not have to take all the steps and be invited and treated well too yeah. Tbh I am hesitant to ask out soon and like to text for longer because you never know with a guy. He just might say "oh I didn’t see that you’re trans in your bio" on the first date and drop you or want sex or hurt/rape you etc. Kind of scared of men. Is that understandable?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:26:33 No.35452706 Report

Quoted By: >>35452715

>>35452232
I don't really use dating apps anymore but the one trans girl I was romantically involved with I just liked her talking about mutual interests. We did not meet through a dating app fyi.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:29:11 No.35452715 Report

Quoted By: >>35452722

>>35452706
I don’t wanna meet through a dating app but nobody approaches me irl :(

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:31:05 No.35452719 Report

Quoted By: >>35452726

>>35452675
Nta but you prolly outta directly mention it to them as well before meeting jist so there are no surprises, something like "you saw that I was trans in my bio right"

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:31:54 No.35452722 Report

Quoted By: >>35452730

>>35452715
Well I met her through this website and I was just looking for a gaming friend initially

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:32:55 No.35452726 Report

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>>35452719
yeah I know. I definitely will if I get that far with someone

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:33:04 No.35452728 Report

Quoted By: >>35452736

First of all, don't get political idk what happened in the last 5 years that made all trannies activists but it's annoying esp when I have the opposite views

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:33:57 No.35452730 Report

Quoted By: >>35452741

>>35452722
This never happens for me because I am not American :(

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:35:34 No.35452736 Report

Quoted By: >>35452756

>>35452728
I mean, are you living under a rock? It’s because right wing parties are making gender affirming care illegal and using trannies for cheap populist politics. Tranners just want to keep their rights to care and be normal people, not be seen as degenerates that need conversion therapy

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:36:18 No.35452741 Report

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>>35452730
I'm not American either

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:39:32 No.35452752 Report

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>>35452610
what because of the meme/horny answers, they aren't so serious and they're a lot easier to give than thoughtful answers, but there are some more thoughtful answers trickling in now

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:41:08 No.35452756 Report

Quoted By: >>35452926

>>35452736
Trannies used to be way more fun before

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 10:49:43 No.35452788 Report

Quoted By:

>>35452232
nothing sex related. i want to connect through something in common first i dont really like small talk

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 11:24:30 No.35452926 Report

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>>35452756
Well guess what it’s easier to not be political when your rights and meds aren’t endangered

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 13:08:43 No.35453496 Report

Quoted By:

>>35452675
whenever possible, if a girl qrites that she is trans in the bio, i make an effort to mention something else brought up in the bio so she knows i read it without forcing her to be overt about it. but also as that other anon said most trans girls will just straight up go "you know i'm trans right?". i even had it happen on grindr of all places recently lol

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 19 Apr 2024 13:35:12 No.35453651 Report

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>>35452232
ky is so hot ugh

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