Please give me any sort of lead or prospect that isn't completely fucked. This community is filled with genuinely crazy people and I need real advice.

I need to find other trans women to talk to that know what they are doing. I have a hard time knowing where to look that isn't a dead end (Filled with significantly older, scary, balding hons who do not care about ACTUALLY transitioning and passing). I feel more lost and alone than ever.

I am trying very hard to transition and it is not going well for me. I am young(ish) and want to have a life worth living. Around 1 year of hrt so far. Intending to get ffs. I don't know how to dress. I am practicing makeup. These are topics that I really hope to discuss with either someone I can call a friend or a group!

What resources can I take advantage of to have a successful and healthy transition?

How can I find helpful friends, community, and advice?
Where do you look?