How do you actually come out as trans? I’m 23, kinda over repping, been naturally feminine and have had tranny thoughts my whole life but deeply repressed due to abusive parents and growing up in a shitty area, now moved out of home and kinda wanna try hrt, obviously im a lateshit but could be something of a luckshit on hrt since people still think i look like a teenager, and i have round facial features. Or maybe im just delusional. But like - how do you actually come out? Do you go on hrt for a few months then come out when you can’t really hide the changes anymore? Should I voicetrain first? Unfortunately I have a really deep but faggy voice, I’ve been trying to train off and on but just haven’t found a way to make it stick. With the way optics and politics are in 2025 I still second guess if it’s even worth it and if I should just permarep even though I know I’m not happy this way. Am I just overthinking all of this?
How do yall jerk off without feeling repulsed of ur dick, cuz stg for me everytime it goes like:
>erection >reach into pants, but never take them off >direct dick contact's revolting asf, so i instead jerk it in underwear
but it's NOT the mp8 shake it up technique, aka "the normal way", im laying down sideways & im not getting up for this shit, so instead:
>horizontally twist back & forth a lil >no firm grip, press on dick a bit like a massive button i cant stop pressing >imagine playing a flute, but u gotta rotate it a bunch of times mid-performance >finish, then go back to what i was doing. cleanup's too embarrassing internally
Ive only recently realized this stems from bottom dysphoria, that i actually HAVE bottom dysphoria (despite being trans for over 4 years atp), i feel dumb as hell not catching on sooner
>Be me 20/yo mtf passoid still in highschool for reasons i won´t get in to >Friends taking a test so i don´t have anyone to sit with, see this very obvious boymoder who is sitting alone >Ask if i can sit with her, she nods akwardly and i put my food down and then leave to get a glass of water >When i come back with the water i make eye contact with her and she just stands up and leaves and throws away her food
Did i scare her? How can i be nicer to boymoders so i don´t scare them?