>>39731872>led me to conclude that nobody should ever "come out" unless they are also moving away from everyone who has ever known you and immediately changing all legal documents and starting a new life.If you enjoy passing privilege however you present, this is the sensible option for preserving sanity, but it's never 100% effective forever.
>cissoids will see you as nothing but a man as soon as they discover your agabYes, but more than that most well-adjusted women will also pity you and think you are insane for: wanting to "become" one of them somehow, and apparent failure to demonstrate an understanding of women's overall position relative to men in society and the workplace.
Cishet normiegen women may also resent you for having any experience of whatever "womanhood" means to you at all without also hating your deeply personal relationship with periods, pregnancy and childbirth (never mind you're dealing with your own issues; it's grossly unfair you don't also have mine).