>>1042857There's nothing they can do for it, it's for the dude himself to learn how to attract girls, there's resources out there if one cares to look.
The structure of banter/teasing/cold-reading/storytelling/roleplaying/how to soft close/rapport building/calibrated escalation/misinterpretation etc.
Those things are risks, compared to neutral/boring biographical questions that guys that struggle with women tend to ask.
If you bend over backwards to please the girl/agree with her, the implication is that you haven't had success with girls in the past and that you're desperate and would therefore do the same thing to any girl.
If you're not fully sold and show willingness to lose her (teases/playful disinterest etc), it implies that you've been successful with women in the past and other women have given you their seal of approval hence you have standards and wouldn't go for just any girl - this makes her feel special and earned you, rather than you being head over heels after just meeting her.
For example if you wanna buy a $10,000 car and the guy offers it to you for $3000, your first thoughts will be "What's wrong with this car?/Why does no one else want it?/Why is he so desperate to sell it?" instead of being that it's a bargain.
Even if you are desperate, it's a fake it till you make it thing. If you approached a different girl every day from birth to life expectancy, It'd only be 29,200, which is nothing in cities of millions - girls are not rare.
If you know any of those such lonely guys, send them to ToddVDating or Coach Kyle. Sales/Psychology/Negotiation/Persuasion books are good too.
If they have low levels (over a standard deviation below the mean) of Openness to Experience, or at least the Imagination/Creativity aspect, it'd be more difficult to learn to flirt, but the other Big 5 traits are action based and can be overcome
