>>33877532Stop making your emotions and your distress someone else's responsibility.
Stop thinking it means less if he doesn't do it on his own, without you having to tell him. He's not going to know what you need if you don't communicate it directly.
No, hinting does not count as direct communication. If you choose to communicate passively and indirectly, rather than assert your needs (does not need to be confrontational), then you've got no one to blame but yourself when the situation doesn't change at all. The answer is already no if you don't ask.
Stop being a fucking coward. Take responsibility for your own emotions, your problems that you're allowing to drag out, and the resentment and contempt you're allowing to accumulate in yourself by choosing to not say anything.
>I'm tired of gooning alone but it'll ruin my respectable cover, I can't seem like a degenerate)It's the current year. Literally who gives a shit, as long as you're not cheating? You can be a respectable person, and have a high sex-drive. These two things aren't mutually exclusive, unless you allow your sex-drive to take over your life, and live for gooning. And it sounds like you're on the road there if you let this
