>>19774765They have to be. Imagine having an objectively huge cock that 9/10 people would be like "wow". I'm talking shower, 7/8 inches soft and thick - impossible to hide in say speedos.
There is way in hell you could not be 100% self aware of your cock on show if you chose to wear speedos to a swimming pool or beach. Women do this all the time however, even when they know kids will be there.