>>21540833Girls always say that when they're looking to cheat and/or upgrade to a better man. It's right up there with "he's cold and doesn't show affection for me anymore."
How a girl bitches about a husband/bf tells you a LOT about her.
Nearly every time, she's lying her sweet little ass off. The idea is she isn't a cheater and would NEVER do this to you, dear anon. It makes it all his fault and he's fucking up in a way that you never would. Almost every time, it's turns out that she was the one being frigid or distant.
On the other hand, if she says he's an asshole, it isn't immediately clear if that's true or not. He might well be one (and that may or may not have been what attracted her to him in the first place, which is its own problem). Listen carefully if she implies abuse. It might well be true. But if you let her talk for a while, sometimes it's obvious that she's lying or wildly exaggerating, in which case run like hell because eventually she will accuse you of the same.
If she says he's a loser, in my experience it's probably true. Says a lot about her loyalty and priorities, but if you know that shit up front you can deal with it. She may be a cheater, but least she is kind of honest. There's always someone out there somewhere who makes you look like a loser, and she will trade up if she gets a chance, but IMO you can have a fun time with girls like that.
The ones worth getting in a real relationship with don't talk shit about their men at all. If the guy's an asshole or loser, she dumps him FIRST, then goes shopping for a replacement. If you lose a girl like that it's your own damn fault.
But yeah "my bf has a low sex drive" is imo a major red flag and probably a total fucking lie.
