I'm so confused, my girlfriend of a couple weeks now is trans. I am okay with this and she is really kind to me. I asked her today if she had surgery on her chest and she said no then laughed a bit. I quickly changed the subject and moved on. I would ask her myself but she is a really intelligent woman and frankly I don't want to seem like an idiot to her. I was under the assumption that all women with breasts have had surgery or have those like, fake breasts or whatever? If she is using fake breasts I wouldn't be mad at her or anything, but I would feel terrible asking and it not being that way. This is the only place I figured I could ask this without getting absolutely shit on, and I refuse to use Reddit. I used 4ch as a kid but mostly phased out of my internet years when I started working full time. Only recently have I gotten back into using my computer.