>>39882388first of all its called "messing" EDUCATE YOURSELF
second of all I, and many diaperfags, dont do messing. While the loss of control and dignity can be hot in a BDSM sort of way you are right in that its gross and the clean up is disgusting. I do wet the diapers (pee) which is more common.
Idk, what can I say? dont knock it till you try it? on a sensory level its just nice to have a soft cushiony thing around your crotch, its so cosy. On a role play level welll...
what you need to understand that many troons dont get to be girly, they are raised to be men and any femininity is punished. If you are lucky you can troon out at a young age but still there is pressure not to be "cringe" so that usually means wearing more neutral clothing. At the same time you are frequently told that you are unlovable, people refuse to date you, parents disown you, and you become a bit of a social pariah and probably have to be hyperindependent to cope
So the roleplay of not only being allowed to be hyperfeminine and girl but infact being ENCOURAGED to be girly by loving and caring parental figure its.... well its pretty nice
this is coming from someone more on the AB side, as for DLs (diaper lovers) who are more into it for the use of diapers and only diapers idk, some of the ones I talk to just appeared to get hyperfixated on the whole process. For me its just part of the roleplay
