>ftm friend sends me some tiktok of a woman jokingly choosing between gooning to futas or femboys
>say there's no way she's a cisf
>ftm friend tells me girls talk about masturbation all the time when with friends
>say I don't believe it because not even guys are willing to talk about their sexuality that openly unless they're social outcast weebs or something
>he says "they don't open up unless they think you're a safe person"

I still don't believe him about the masturbation thing but... fucking ouch. I'm fully aware I'm a hon and everything, and as a manmoder you can expect to be treated as a regular guy would. But the fact that I'm not even perceived as a safe person? That fucking hurts.