>>3982491620, trans female, white, 5'10
Someone I genuinely admire. Someone who's extremely politically conscious and principled. Empathetic. Capable, independent, strong, both in the literal physical sense but also as a person. Someone who is extremely confident, but also self-aware, their confidence isn't misplaced. A good person. Well-spoken, very intelligent. Someone who's well liked by people I respect and hated by people I don't. i know everyone says this but, a good sense of humor...
This is so embarrassing but I'd like someone who's secretly a little bit sadistic, or maybe more than a little bit. Someone who teases me. Someone who's better than me. Someone who, in a lot of ways, very much looks down on me. but not EVERY way, I need to be admired too. Someone who makes me feel small, and safe, and protected. Someone who's... you know :(. maybe a little aggressive when the situation calls for it. someone who's maybe a little sexually aggressive... someone who,, manhandles me. maybe someone who does that in public. someone who knows that i'm very fragile. someone who pushes my boundaries. someone who is, somehow, genuinely very attracted to me. someone who does what they think is best for me, regardless of what i have to say about it. someone who has a lot of control over me, and who very much enjoys that feeling... someone who takes what they want. i could probably go on...
i'd prefer my partner to have a penis rather than a vagina, for sexual reasons, but I absolutely would still date someone with a vagina and we would find a way to make it work. whether they're a man or a woman i don't know. i typically imagine myself in relationships with women, i think because the only person I've ever met who i admired in this sense and who treated me in this way just happened to be a cis woman, but I think maybe hypothetically I could date a man.
(also taller, older, bigger than me. well built / muscular. healthy. attractive looking. all those things.)
