>be me 18 mtf on hrt for a few months
>parents are very devout Mormons
>want to come out
>worried about how they will react so I have everything ready to move in with my bf if it goes poorly
>fully expect to get kicked out or in the best case scenario get the "we still love you but we can't accept this" treatment
>gather them in the living room and take a deep breath
>"mom, dad, I'm not a boy. I intend to change my gender. I've already started hrt. And Mike isn't my best friend. He's my boyfriend."
>brace myself for the shit storm, prepared to bolt if they get physical with me
>"that's okay anon! Do you have a new name?"
>whut.jpg
>tell them my new name
>they accept me easily
>I am confused, ask why they aren't mad since being trans is like a sin or whatever
>"nowhere in the Bible or the book of moromon does it say that a man cannot become a woman. This Is a part of God's plan."
>they bombard me with questions about how they can support me
>end up telling them way more than I originally planned due to being caught off guard
>tell them about how I came to realize I was trans, how Mike helped me realize it... accidently disclose that me and Mike had been intimate
>that's the part they get mad about. Not being trans. Premarital sex. I'm grounded for a month and they want me to repent.
>mom is giving me advice on how to be a submissive and godly wife for Mike
>keeps asking me when I'm gonna marry him
>tells me "it's a shame you can't have kids but you can always adopt!"
>go to church
>parents tell priest about me being trans in broad daylight
>ohshit.jpg
>priest is accepting as is the rest of the community
>parents make me apologize to God for premarital sex
>mfw

Wtf? This has been a fucking roller coaster of emotions. I'm so happy and excited to be accepted for who I am by my family and community but I'm also upset I'm grounded? Also the idea of being a "submissive godly wife" for my boyfriend makes me upset but also kinda turned on? What do?