>>39507037I asked AI to make me a guide on how to deal with my AGP feelings while 4chan was down
Crossing Manual: Dealing with AGP Triggers
- Girls having fun
Feeling: exclusion, longing for a belonging that was never experienced.
Response: remember that what you envy isn't the body, but the bond. Build your own. Seek true friendships,
presence, lightness. You don't need to be them to live that joy - you can find it by being who you are, in your
own way.
- Girls mocking masculinity
Feeling: humiliation mixed with relief - a chance to detach from the male role.
Response: breathe and observe. Those words aren't about you. They come from experiences of pain that
aren't yours. What you're looking for isn't the negation of a gender, but the authentic expression of your
essence.
- Very attractive and/or stylish girls
Feeling: desire to be what attracts.
Response: see it as admiration. Take note of what enchants you: the lipstick color, the way they walk, the
style. Use it as aesthetic inspiration, not as proof of your insufficiency. Your beauty is on a different register -
perhaps less obvious, but real.
- Intelligent and brilliant girls
Feeling: admiration with a hint of 'she's taking the place I should occupy.'
Response: remember that brilliance has no gender. Your mind is unique - and had it been born in a female
body, it might not have been heard. Cultivate your own light as it is. Admire others as sisters on the journey,
not as rivals.
- Girls in maternal relationships
Feeling: desire to be cared for and to care, at the same time.
Response: offer that care to yourself first. Learn to mother yourself. Create small rituals of affection. And
connect with others who value deep bonds. That's not exclusive to any gender - it's a human gift, and yours
