i've was dating this girl for a while. i broke up with her in January because she had a chronic issue with taking accountability (she would start crazy arguments and then act like they didn't happen or delay giving apologies/recognize that it was bad).

ultimately she begged me to come back, and she promised to make everything work this time. she's very resentful of the fact that i broke up with her; she says it was cruel because i wasn't trying to make things work (despite the fact we had this conversation over accountability over and over again).

the thing is, when we got back together, she started acting distant and demanding acts of love to win her back, all of which i did but she accepted with nonchalance. we broke up again, but instead of staying "friends", she would text as if we were partners again. from this, we've had cycles of me "breaking up"/distancing myself from her (because i refuse to be with someone that is not sure of whether she wants me as a partner or not) and then coming back together (with complaints of her telling me that i'm just constantly abandoning her and again, telling me i'm the love of her life but that she just doesn't trust me to stay so i should just cope with the "situationship" until she's ready to fully be with me again). i'm really unsure of this setting; it just screams non-commital and playful. what do y'all think, trannies?