>>35690853idk there's a lot of weird mtfs out there that don't put in much effort (not voicetraining, no laser/electrolysis, not shaving, don't do eyebrows, seem oblivious to what looks good on their body, +more)
and like I get it, some of this shit is hard and it takes time to develop a sense of things and sometimes you'll experiment and find out what works and doesn't, but there are some I've encountered that after years don't recognize this.
I'm cool with people having genital preferences, I'm bi/pan but I get it. it makes sense. I'm a nonbinary amab with dysphoria. I voicetrained, I'm getting surgeries, I try to dress okay for my age, people never misgender me, but I'd never impose on other people. I can't understand the entitlement. I'm so meek that I have to make an effort to give myself permission to exist.
