"Theying out" edition

QOTT: What made you decide to "they out"? What changes did you make when you "theyed out"?

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Frequently Asked Questions:

> Do I have to dress/look ambiguous to be Non-Binary
You do not!

> Does this mean I’m gay?
Your gender is separate from your sexuality! You can look however and like whomever :)

> Will my parents understand?
Hopefully! But if not, I am so sorry, and I hope they come around. I personally like to remind them they are already aware of Prince, David Bowie, and the entire 1980’s glam rock scene, and that they probably used to think a gender bendy thing was cool when it was “hip” and that it’s not a big deal, you’re just finding yourself. Yes, you’ll still find someone to marry.

> Will boys think I’m gross?
Only the bigots, but even a lot of them will side into your DM’s

> Will the girls think I’m gross
Not unless they’re secretly bad people, but even then maybe not. A lot of women find it validating when a masculine person expresses interest in “dumb girl stuff” and they also understand the longing to be able to be like one of the boys or wear certain clothes they normally aren’t allowed to.

> Will I look stupid?
It’s ok, you’ll look good. Just like picking out your clothes now there will be stuff you look good in, stuff you don’t, and stuff you think looks bad but other people like to see on you. Once the initial shock wears off you’ll most likely find yourself inspired by your wardrobe in a way you’ve never been before because now you can actually wear the things you want. (Remember, though. You’re just being yourself so you don’t HAVE to if you don’t WANT to.)