>>2547241He's more straight but wanted to give it a go without worrying about STDs etc.
Creepy is a subjective thing. Definitely many are very pushy for sex. I'm up for dinner and a drink, see how it goes, but demanding I come round to your house at 2am, constantly, or straight away demanding dick pics and then constantly going on. Then there's weird demands from some (asking you to go to their orgy with 'toxic' guys, kicking in the balls, wearing specific items of clothing). BTW, I'm not talking about Grindr but some of the nicer apps.
On wanting the same thing, some just want to fuck straight away preferably bareback, some may be after a relationship (the minority). Yes, everyone wants sex eventually, but is that in 5 minutes time or when you get comfortable?
On controlling, some yes especially if you are younger, some will just know more about what they want more as they are older or certainly know what they don't want.
I guess it one of those things, younger guys may not have their own space so you are more likely to be in theirs. So if he tries to rawdog you at 3am are you going to get up and walk? When he promises he's clean, do you continue leave or relent? As a grown ass man at 3am, I can jump in an Uber and pay £100 to get home, I couldn't have done that when I was 20.