>>865465Finally, someone else gets it. She's acquiescing to being ugly in front of you. Since society places such inordinate emphasis on women to be perfectly attractive and beautiful at all times, things like ring gags and nose hooks are massive subversions of that expectation. When stripped (in the context of a BDSM scene) of clothing, comfort, and freedom of movement, the last thing she can offer up is her beauty, and that can be super hot.