>>1756395My advice is, find a girl who enjoys sex, one that does would allow you and be willing to have sex with you all the time.
Read a lot and learn techniques to give her mind-blowing orgasms, then begin to tease and deny her, first a couple of days, then a week... tie her gently, and giver her an orgasm (5 or 6 in a row is better) after a week of denial with your tongue then fuck her hard (the order doesn't matter) From there start introducing dildos, restrains... and very very slowly and kindly anal. (Anal is like kriptonite for most submissive women) You need to learn her body like if it was your own.
From there you can introduce more and more things. For example some mild spanking then tongue, spanking, caressing, spanking, tongue, etc.
At times end the session fucking her hard and do not let her come.
You need to understand that not all women like all things regardless of how kinky they are.
Regardless of the activities you participate in with her there has to be something for both of you, and if you're the dominant be prepared to do most if not all the work.
Sometimes all there is for the dominant is the enjoyment of seeing the submissive submitting in body and soul, enjoying herself, letting herself go and trust you with her life, many times there is nothing sexual to it but enjoying the relationship dynamic and admiring her floating in subspace.
3 years after introducing a fine lady to the kink, when I asked her if she would go back to vanilla sex she said: "Fuck no, can't imagine going back, not in a million years"
And never forget, do not do anything she doesn't agree to. If she dislikes for example "clamps on her nipples", don't insist. Also do not overly complicate things less is more, do not mix too many times of sensations the same day, etc.
Remember start slowly and leave her wanting more.