>>4444593People can't help how they feel. Emotional and physical responses can be evoked without investment.
For example, the physical response of feeling vertigo, or the emotional response of feeling empathy.
In the case of empathy, it's automatic and unintentional, like seeing a splinter pierce skin and touching your hand in the same place.
The difference is that we will all have different sensitivity to these stimuli.
Anything we look at is catalogued by the brain. When it smiles and speaks, this knowledge is assigned to it. At some point it begins to have enough attributes that some people will compare it to a living thing, again all unintentionally. The degree to which this will affect you will be based on your body and experiences.
Rationally, we know it's fake. It's not human. However, completely stepping away from something mentally isn't a human capability, that's why we have alcohol and therapists (the rapists, oh hoh!).
If you can enjoy violence just as much as consent so long as you visually process a male entering a female then consider your tolerance of those fetishes to be higher rather than other people having problems with investment.
Disgust, an emotional response, (for this specific case: rape and related acts) cannot be helped.
Some people don't care what's going in, non-humans like orcs or even animals. Some people like seeing insects or tentacles and so on. Personally not a fan. To group an entire discussion and complex set of responses into "if you're male you shouldn't think this way" is unfair.
Everyone draws their lines in different places, I think most if not all of us would like to enjoy the sequel but for some it simply won't be possible.