what do i do when im in a relationship that i enjoy currently, but i also know will just not work long term
we've been seeing each other for like a year, it started off not serious, but we became exclusive.
i enjoy what we do, but it is basically just hang out together, drink and smoke weed and play video games. he is probably an alcoholic and "weed addict" (i know, but really, he has like 6 joints a day and would not even consider stuff like going on holiday abroad or anything because he'd have to go without weed). this was fun at first a couple of nights a week but now im seeing him more its too much for me, and i realise i dont want to do this forever.
im at the point where i know it probably needs to end because i dont want to do this much longer, but at the same time i do genuinely care about him, enjoy being with him and would be very sad to end it. i dont want to hurt him either. idk bros.
