I’m a dumb cis dude that has no idea about bottoming but my tranner gf and I are wanting to have sex more often and she’s struggling with both prepping and taking me. When she preps it takes around an hour which we both feel like is too long. She also struggles a bit with taking me when we actually get to having sex. We normally start with me fingering her a bit and using a buttplug while we do some foreplay but when it comes to taking my dick she struggles a bit and we don’t end up doing too much. Is there anything we can do to make the process easier? Ty anons