Is it BPD shit if I want to be the only one that has my name in my friend group/friends' lives?
My name is like, medium levels of common (you see it a lot more in tv than irl stuff) so I know it shouldn't bother me, but it lowkey makes me go a bit insane to think I share a name with someone else in my friend group.
I have a friend who I want to hang out with more, but she has a roommate that has the same name as me and it makes me feel weird, especially since the name I go by is a nickname and I'd be forced to use my full name while over there just to make it clear when my friend is talking to me.