when I imagine myself as a woman with a vagina I want to have sex with men a lot and women very little.
when I imagine myself as a man with a penis I want to have sex with women a lot and men very little.

is this not a normal thing? do other people genuinely not feel this way because I really thought this was the norm.
honestly I don't want to project my desires onto the rest of the world but I feel like this is actually pretty common and the only reason people deny it is because most people have never actually stepped into the shoes of the opposite sex in any capacity y'know?
most people aren't aware of just how much the way they're perceived and the way they perceive themselves affects their sexuality.

I kinda want to do an experiment where we take a bunch of straight cis people, make them anonymous (for more honesty) then make them control a character of the opposite sex in some kind of environment whether that be digital or physical somehow.
let them talk to others, let them have simulated sexual contact if they desire and just record what they say and do.

and then at the end of the experiment make them fill out a form detailing their thoughts on it that include a self assessment similar to the Kinsey scale but instead of measuring homosexuality it measures autosexuality (how much were you getting off to your character rather than your partner while engaging in sexual contact, agp/aap)

please can someone do that