>>39584163genital preference is valid only as a negative and not as a positive, example:
lesbian refusing to have sex with a man because he has a dick: valid.
woman refusing to have sex with a transbian because she has a dick: valid.
man refusing to have sex with another man because he has a dick: valid
man wanting a trans gf because she has a dick: not valid.
man refusing sex with a trans girl because she has a dick: not valid.
it's just how the question is framed, requesting genital status implies a jump to sex, that is not ok, no sex before marriage bucko.