>>1729194>bullying kink that's so prevalent among gay men.Sweetie, females love it even more. There's an entire generation of self-idenfitied "nice guys" who bitch about this fact on a daily basis.
>>1729158A natural leader doesn't 'take charge but only in the right moments'. It's not a job for them, it's a natural role. The concept of a "gentlemen" vs "dominant" is completely fucking retarded. He's an alpha, he's always dominant. Dominance isn't an ability, he doesn't turn it on and off. He can alter his charm depending on situations, but his dominance is non-negotiable.
Perhaps you're not looking for an alpha, you're looking for a white knight who can roleplay as a dominant in bed. Nothing wrong with that, but we need to cut out this Cosmo-tier garbage of alpha men just being regular men who can take charge while in bed ASAP.