>>1271086>Teach me how,this will help:
http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/it is geared toward straight men who chase women, but fags are a lot like women so most of the same techniques work.
basically, you should dress like the person you're trying to attract, act confident without being douchey, learn how to engage in conversation, put yourself out there in clubs and other places where single people congregate, make the first move ie. initiate conversation, make the other person comfortable without seeming desperate (don't tell them how good-looking they are) etc.
going to a gym and eating right will help you with your confidence and put you in contact with other gays in a no-pressure setting, so start with that.
basically, it is an art and once you learn how to do it, it becomes pretty easy.
if you want a long-term relationship the techniques still work, you just focus on people who are more inclined to long-term like at church or
match.com (not grindr)