>>1223180samefag here
I would love to add a few comments of my own on the subject:
>Grindr has changed the game.Grindr and Hornet and A4A and the myriad of digital choices have steered the younger (and older) generation onto their smartphones. It's less risky, and you can swap dick pics on the bus. That said, cruising the teahouse has two major advantages over Grindr. First, it's more of a sure bet. Grindr boys flake all the time, cumming to your pics, choosing a hotter guy or just deciding they don't wanna come through. In the teahouse, they're there to actually fuck. Second, it's more real. Even if you don't hook up, there's a thrill in discreetly jerking off, knowing men and their penises are all around you, peeking under stall, trying to guess their age, looks, physique from their shoes and ankles. It's not for everyone, but you know who you are. My advice is to use the technology to your advantage. Post a Craigslist ad for understall, saying what area (or even the particular tearoom if you're brave) you'll be cruising before you leave. When you get there, set your Grindr name to "Understall" or something. Luckily, Grindr has remained a huge mystery to straight people, so use it. If you walk into a bathroom, someone is looking suspicious in the stall and you hear that Grindr message sound, what would you think?
