Lol sorry, I haven't checked the thread in days. Use lots of lube, but you can't be afraid to actually touch your anus with the lube otherwise it will be quite painful. In my experience, it hurts a lot at first when the head of the dildo first goes in, but then it feels really good. I've only used a dildo that was made to use with a strapon, but I assume that one with a suction cup on the end would be better. My hand gets tired pushing it in and out so I usually just stick it in and fap normally. Definitely see if you can do it with a girl though, it was a lot of fun for me, but I've only done that once. Feel free to ask any more questions, I've been with a dominant girl for almost three years now, but we don't usually do anything too crazy.