>>3239295Even though I enjoy hentai (usually the vanilla variety) I differentiate hentai (fantasy) with sex in real relationships. A lot of the stuff I find erotic and sexually appealing in hentai (bondage, blow jobs, prostate massaging) don't ever cross over into real sex for me. I'm oriental myself and all the girls I have slept with are oriental and it's always been very plain sex (me on top, me eating her out once in a while, that sort of deal).
Then I dated some crazy white chick I thought was really nice when I transferred uni's and she was bat shit insane and didn't think twice to give me prostate massages and deep throats.
I guess I just wasn't used to them (I didn't really even mean sadist, just always used to being the dom in bed) and I always end up making embarrassing sounds or cumming much quicker than I ever used to.